Etiquette

This may seem like a lot.

But on the bright side, I don’t care if you use the wrong fork at dinner.

  • Please see the “Additional Details” section of my Investment page.

  • Getting ready is part of the ritual. I enjoy choosing something that is venue appropriate, understated, and feels authentic and effortless. I may turn heads, but it will only be for the right reasons.


    If you’ve noticed a particular piece in my photos, feel free to mention it. If it’s still in rotation, I may be able to bring it back. I’m also happy to take general cues, whether we’re dressing up a little more for the occasion or keeping things casual in jeans.

    I enjoy wearing a suspender belt (sometimes people mistakenly call this a “garter”) and usually wear stockings. My current photos don’t reflect this but that was due to photoshoot logistics (I always seem to bring more outfits than we have time for). So, if a suspender set is something that interests you (or doesn’t interest you), please feel free let me know.

  • I very much enjoy being invited to add a new energy to something already established. For those new to me, I’m not available as a surprise. Both partners must be aware of my attendance and complete screening. Once we’ve met, I’d be delighted to join you again as a surprise for a future date night. The investment will be an additional $100/hr.

  • For those who I have already met, I would love to bring one of my friends into the experience. Let me know if this interests you, and I’ll share a few options.

    We keep things simple with rate matching, each companion’s investment is aligned to the higher rate. Advance notice is essential, as coordinating schedules for three takes finesse.

  • Occasionally, I share moments from a date. Usually well after the fact, once we’ve had time to savour the experience privately.

    If you prefer our time (and anything connected to it) remain entirely private, I’m more than happy to oblige. As a private person myself, I welcome the opportunity to keep what we share offline, just between us.

    You’ll notice that my current social media is fairly limited. This is because I don’t post much, I’ve been offline for awhile, and due to the recent changes at Twitter I’ve done a timeline sweep to (hopefully) remove anything that could potentially get me banned.

    I anticipate I’ll continue taking social media breaks on a regular basis.

  • I keep my digital communications intentionally limited. This enables me to be fully present and engaged during my in-person connections. I want to live life out in the real world - not on my phone or in my inbox. So, instead of texting, I use email for all communications.

  • "You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean, in a drop"

    -Rumi

  • "A day without laughter is a day wasted."

    -Charlie Chaplin

  • Show me how you glow.

    -Me, I said that